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علی اكبرهای امام خامنه ای - توصیه های آیت الله نوری همدانی به والدین در مورد بلوغ فرزندان
 
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حضرت آیت الله نوری همدانی از مراجع تقلید در رابطه با بلوغ فرزندان تذکراتی را در کتاب احکام جوانان به پدران و مادران داده اند که به اختصار چنین است :
1. پدران و مادران توجه داشته باشند که تاریخ تولد فرزندان خود را با ماه و سال قمری یادداشت کنند، چون معیار تکلیف در اسلام ماه قمری است؛ یعنی اگر گفته شده دختر در 9 سالگی و پسر در 15 سالگی به سن بلوغ می رسد منظور سال قمری است که کمتر از سال شمسی است.
به عنوان مثال دختران در 8 سال و 9 ماه شمسی به سن بلوغ می رسند که حدوداً کلاس سوم ابتدایی و پسران در 14 سال و 7 ماه شمسی به سن بلوغ می رسند که حدواً کلاس اول دبیرستان هستند. در این خصوص پدران و مادران باید از زمان تولد که معمولا به شمسی است این مدت را اضافه کنند و آن روز، روز بلوغ فرزند آنهاست.
2. پدران و مادران، فرزندان خود را قبل از بلوغ به خواندن نماز و گرفتن روزه وادار و تشویق نمایند تا فرزندان به مراعات احکام اسلام عادت نمایند و آمادگی برای بجا آوردن آنها در موقع خود را داشته باشند.
همانطور که پیامبر اکرم (ص) فرمود : «فرزندان خود را در سن هفت سالگی به نماز خواندن عادت دهید.»
3. پدران و مادران بر اساس رسم و عاداتی که فعلا در بسیاری از مناطق معمول شده است اگر می خواهند برای فرزندانشان جشن تولد بگیرند این کار را تا سن بلوغ فرزندانشان ادامه بدهند، ولی بعد از رسیدن به سن بلوغ، جشن تولد را به جشن بلوغ (جشن عبادت و جشن تکلیف) مبدل سازند.
4. پدران و مادران و همچنین خود فرزندان سعی کنند که در موقع فرا رسیدن بلوغ سنی، بلوغ فکری و فرهنگی نیز پیدا کرده باشند (در برخوردهای خود تجدید نظر کنند.)

منبع : شیوه های رفتار با جوانان از منظر ولایت ـ احمد طهماسبی ـ ص 18




نوع مطلب : جوان و اجتماع، 
برچسب ها : جوان و بلوغ، بلوغ فکری و فرهنگی، توصیه های آیت الله، جشن تولد یا جشن بلوغ،
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